Violence is not always physical, and it does not always leave visible marks. Through research and client work I know the different forms of violence and how the perpetrator’s personality affects the person on the receiving end. The mobile app I developed, Narsismista toipuminen (Recovering from Narcissism), is designed especially for the self-help needs of people who have experienced violence (www.narsismistatoipuminen.fi, in Finnish).
Physical violence
I have studied homicide and other serious violence for more than 25 years. I have published dozens of peer-reviewed articles and non-fiction books on these subjects and trained authorities and organisations. People who have experienced violence are one of the largest client groups in my psychotherapy practice.
Emotional violence
Control, belittling, threats, isolation and stalking are serious violence, and I have worked extensively on them, including helping to bring an anti-stalking law to Finland. On social media I help people recognise these phenomena and describe them so that they become visible and recognisable.
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Financial violence
Money and property can be used as instruments of power: controlling another person’s spending, driving them into debt or exploiting them financially. Financial violence in families and family businesses is the subject of the non-fiction book I am currently writing.
Personality disorder
Behind a person who uses violence there is often a personality disorder. I have described this in my non-fiction books and in my public advocacy work. Many of my clients have told me that understanding the perpetrator’s mind as part of psychotherapy has helped them recover.